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    Switching to Social Security Survivor Benefits After a Spouse Dies

    Survivor benefits can replace some of your household income, but the rules are confusing. Here is what a widow or widower keeps, what stops, and how to apply.

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    Find your local Social Security office or schedule a phone call

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    Visit ssa.gov/locator and enter your zip code to find the nearest Social Security office. You can apply for survivor benefits by phone (1-800-772-1213) or in person. The phone wait is usually 30 to 90 minutes. In-person appointments often book out 4 to 6 weeks. Many widows prefer in person because you can hand over original documents and they make copies on the spot.

    Quick Tip

    Quick Tip: Ask for a written estimate of both your own retirement benefit and the survivor benefit. Compare the numbers before you decide which to claim first.

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    Gather the paperwork before you call or visit

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    You will need a certified death certificate, your marriage certificate (the actual one, not a photocopy), your Social Security card and your late spouse's card if you have it, both your birth certificates, and last year's tax return for each of you. If your spouse served in the military, bring discharge papers (DD-214). If your spouse was already receiving Social Security, bring a recent benefit statement.
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    Decide whether to claim survivor benefits now or later

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    If you are between age 60 and your full retirement age, claiming survivor benefits now means a permanently reduced check. But if you let your own retirement benefit grow until age 70, your eventual switch may be higher than if you took everything at 62. Run both scenarios with the Social Security representative. There is no wrong answer. It depends on your current income, health, and other savings.

    Warning

    Once you switch from survivor to your own retirement benefit (or vice versa), you cannot undo it after 12 months. Take time on this decision.

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    Apply for the one-time lump-sum death payment

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    Social Security pays a one-time $255 lump-sum death benefit to the surviving spouse. This is in addition to any monthly survivor benefit. You must apply within 2 years of the death. It is a small amount. But it is yours — do not leave it on the table. The agent should add it to your file when you apply for survivor benefits.
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    Watch the mail for your first survivor benefit deposit

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    After approval, the first survivor benefit deposit usually arrives in 30 to 60 days. Social Security pays a month behind, so the May benefit arrives in June. If a deposit comes in for your late spouse after the death (because Social Security had not yet updated their records), the bank will eventually pull it back. Do not spend a benefit check made out to the deceased.

    Quick Tip

    Quick Tip: Sign up for a my Social Security account at ssa.gov/myaccount once your survivor benefit is approved. You can check deposits and download tax forms (SSA-1099) for free.

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    When a spouse dies, the surviving spouse may be eligible for Social Security survivor benefits. The basic idea: a widow or widower can receive the higher of their own benefit or their late spouse's benefit, but not both added together. This trips up a lot of new widows who thought they would collect two checks. You only collect one — the bigger one.

    The rules for when you can claim survivor benefits are different from regular retirement benefits. You can begin survivor benefits as early as age 60 (age 50 if disabled), even if you have not yet claimed your own retirement benefit. This opens a planning move: claim survivor benefits at 60 and let your own retirement benefit keep growing until age 70, when it reaches its highest possible amount. Then switch.

    The amount you receive depends on your age when you claim and what your spouse was already receiving (or eligible to receive). If you claim survivor benefits before your full retirement age (66 to 67 for most current widows), the amount is reduced. At full retirement age, you receive 100 percent of what your spouse was getting. Claiming early can permanently reduce the monthly check by up to 28.5 percent.

    You cannot apply for survivor benefits online. You have to call Social Security at 1-800-772-1213 or visit a local Social Security office. Bring a certified death certificate, your marriage certificate, your Social Security card, and both of your most recent tax returns.

    (Sources: Social Security Administration — Survivors Benefits; AARP — Social Security Survivor Benefits)

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