Executor Tools
You've been named executor. Now what?
First 30 days
- Get 10-20 certified copies of death certificate (funeral home orders).
- Locate the will and any trust documents.
- Notify Social Security (1-800-772-1213). Stop benefits.
- Notify pension/401k providers.
- Tell banks. They'll freeze accounts pending probate.
- Contact life insurance.
- Start a "Date of Death" file — every account balance, every bill.
Helpful tools
- Everplans — $89/yr digital filing cabinet for end-of-life docs. Saves hours.
- EstateExec — $169/yr software walks you through executor duties. State-specific.
- Trustworthy — $200/yr family info hub.
- Local probate attorney — $1,500-5,000 typical. Worth it for estates over $250K.
- USPS Mail Forwarding — forward mail to executor for 1 year.
- Credit bureau notification — flag deceased to prevent ID theft.
Probate — file in 60-90 days
- File the will with local probate court (county courthouse).
- Court issues "Letters Testamentary" — proves you're executor.
- Inventory all assets.
- Pay debts (60-180 days for creditors to file claims).
- File final tax return (IRS Form 1040 + Form 1041 if estate income).
- Distribute assets to heirs.
- File final probate accounting.
- Court closes estate.
Typical timeline: 6-18 months. Complex estates: 2-5 years.
Don't skip these contacts
- IRS — request final return / Form 706 if estate > $13.6M (2025).
- Veterans Affairs — burial benefits ($300-2,000 for vets).
- Equifax + Experian + TransUnion — flag deceased.
- Credit cards — close accounts.
- Email + social — see /tools/memorial-facebook-guide.
- Phone, internet, streaming, magazine subscriptions.
- Utilities — transfer to surviving spouse or close.
- HOA + property tax assessor.
Common executor mistakes
- Distributing assets BEFORE paying creditors → you become personally liable.
- Co-mingling estate funds with own — open a SEPARATE estate checking account.
- Missing tax deadlines.
- Selling property too fast — heirs may want to keep it.
- Not communicating with beneficiaries — leads to lawsuits.
- Doing everything alone — hire CPA + attorney for complex estates.
Take care of yourself
Being an executor while grieving is exhausting. Set boundaries. Tell other family members what's happening. Don't rush. The IRS gives 9-15 months for estate tax filing. Most things can wait 30 days.