OurTime
Most popular 50+ dating site.
What is OurTime?
- Largest 50+ dating site.
- Owned by Match Group.
- 5+ million members.
- Designed specifically for older adults.
- Web + mobile app.
- Established + reliable.
Cost
- Free to browse.
- $30/month for messaging.
- Cheaper for 6-month subscription.
- Often promo deals first month.
- Standard dating site pricing.
- Cancel before auto-renew.
Safety tips
- Never send money to anyone you haven't met.
- Video chat before meeting in person.
- Meet in public the first 3 times.
- Tell friend/family location of date.
- Watch for romance scam red flags.
- Block + report suspicious users.
Profile tips
- Recent photos — multiple angles.
- Smile + clear face shot.
- Photo with hobby or pet.
- Honest about age + interests.
- Specific examples — "love hiking" not just "active."
- Profile written in your authentic voice.
Common scam signs
- Asks to communicate off-site quickly.
- Photos look too professional.
- Falls in love within 2 weeks.
- Always traveling or military overseas.
- Asks for money for "emergency."
- Reverse image search profile photos.
Alternatives
- SilverSingles — premium 50+ matchmaking.
- Match.com — broader age range, $30+/mo.
- eHarmony — questionnaire-based, $35+/mo.
- SeniorMatch — also designed for 50+.
- Bumble — younger crowd skew.
- Local — meetup, faith communities.
Try free first
OurTime offers free browsing — see who's in your area before paying. If you find people who interest you, then upgrade. Be patient — finding someone takes weeks or months. Stay safe — never send money to online connections. Many seniors find lasting partnerships through these sites; many also encounter scams. Caution + persistence both required.