Remote Help Setup
Let a trusted family member fix something on your computer or phone — without driving over.
Read this first
Only EVER let people you know personally see your screen. Scammers ("Microsoft tech support", random pop-ups) will use these same tools to steal from you. Real family knows your stories. Real Microsoft and Apple do not call you.
Mac to Mac (or iPhone to iPhone) — SharePlay screen sharing
If both of you have Apple devices, this is built in.
- Start a FaceTime call with the family member.
- Tap the SharePlay icon (a person with sparkles, top right of FaceTime).
- Tap "Share My Screen". They see what you see.
- For Mac-to-Mac, on the helper's end they can also request control of your screen — you must approve a popup.
- End sharing anytime by tapping the SharePlay icon → "End".
Windows — Quick Assist (free)
- You: press the Windows key, type "Quick Assist", press Enter.
- You: tap "Get help".
- Helper does the same on their PC and clicks "Help someone".
- Helper signs in with their Microsoft account → gets a 6-digit code.
- Helper reads you the code → you type it in your Quick Assist window.
- You see a popup asking permission. Click "Allow". Helper can now see your screen.
- To close: just close the Quick Assist window.
Android — Google Meet screen share
- Start a Google Meet video call with the family member.
- Tap the three-dot menu → "Share screen" → "Start sharing".
- They can see your screen but cannot click for you. Verbal coaching only.
For full control: Install the free Google Family Link app — gives a trusted family member limited access. Or use TeamViewer (paid for business but free for family use).
Cross-platform — TeamViewer (free for personal)
- Both of you install TeamViewer from teamviewer.com or your app store.
- Choose "Personal use" when it asks.
- You: open TeamViewer. It shows a 9-digit ID and 4-digit password.
- Read those numbers to your family member by phone.
- They type them in. You see a popup asking permission. Click "Allow".
- They can now see and click on your screen.
- Close TeamViewer when done — they lose access.
Family ground rules
- Only start a remote session when YOU dial the family member first — never when someone calls you.
- Stay on the phone with them while they're on your screen.
- End the session as soon as the problem is fixed.
- If a "Microsoft" or "Apple" person ever asks you to install remote-help software, hang up. Always a scam.