Respite Care Finders
Take a break before you break.
Why respite matters
Caregiver burnout leads to depression, illness, and worse outcomes for the person being cared for. Respite — even a few hours a week — improves both lives. Most caregivers don't take respite because they don't know where to find it.
Free or low-cost respite
- Area Agency on Aging (AAA) — every county has one. Some pay for in-home help.
- Veterans — VA Respite Program, 30 days/year free for vets' family caregivers.
- Medicaid waivers — most states cover respite. Check your state Medicaid office.
- Hospice — Medicare covers 5 days inpatient respite per stretch.
- National Family Caregiver Support Program — federal, $300-1,500/year.
- Local faith communities — many host volunteer "caregiver helpers".
- Adult day programs — $40-100/day. Some scholarships available.
Finder tools
- Eldercare Locator — 1-800-677-1116 OR eldercare.acl.gov. Free hotline.
- ARCH National Respite Network — archrespite.org. State-by-state directory.
- Care.com — paid: $10-30/hour for in-home help. Background checks available.
- Visiting Angels, Home Instead — $25-40/hr in-home companion care.
- 211 hotline — call 211, ask for caregiver respite resources.
Types of respite
- In-home companion — paid helper sits with patient, $20-30/hr.
- Adult day program — patient goes to facility for 4-8 hours. Activities, meals.
- Overnight respite — patient stays at care facility 1-7 days.
- Camp respite — week-long summer respite camps for caregivers.
- Family/friend swap — schedule trusted family for 4-hour blocks.
- Volunteer respite — Faith in Action, hospice volunteers, AmeriCorps Senior Companion (free).
First-time respite checklist
- Write down medication schedule + allergies.
- Emergency contacts list.
- Doctor names + phone numbers.
- Daily routine outline.
- Tour the facility (or interview helper) BEFORE you leave.
- Start small — 2-4 hours first time.
- Don't feel guilty. This is part of caring.
Self-care isn't selfish
"I'm fine, I don't need a break" — said by every burned-out caregiver. Respite once a week is preventive medicine for YOUR health. Use it. Your loved one needs you healthy more than constantly present.