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    Respite Care Finders

    Take a break before you break.

    Why respite matters

    Caregiver burnout leads to depression, illness, and worse outcomes for the person being cared for. Respite — even a few hours a week — improves both lives. Most caregivers don't take respite because they don't know where to find it.

    Free or low-cost respite

    • Area Agency on Aging (AAA) — every county has one. Some pay for in-home help.
    • Veterans — VA Respite Program, 30 days/year free for vets' family caregivers.
    • Medicaid waivers — most states cover respite. Check your state Medicaid office.
    • Hospice — Medicare covers 5 days inpatient respite per stretch.
    • National Family Caregiver Support Program — federal, $300-1,500/year.
    • Local faith communities — many host volunteer "caregiver helpers".
    • Adult day programs — $40-100/day. Some scholarships available.

    Finder tools

    • Eldercare Locator — 1-800-677-1116 OR eldercare.acl.gov. Free hotline.
    • ARCH National Respite Network — archrespite.org. State-by-state directory.
    • Care.com — paid: $10-30/hour for in-home help. Background checks available.
    • Visiting Angels, Home Instead — $25-40/hr in-home companion care.
    • 211 hotline — call 211, ask for caregiver respite resources.

    Types of respite

    • In-home companion — paid helper sits with patient, $20-30/hr.
    • Adult day program — patient goes to facility for 4-8 hours. Activities, meals.
    • Overnight respite — patient stays at care facility 1-7 days.
    • Camp respite — week-long summer respite camps for caregivers.
    • Family/friend swap — schedule trusted family for 4-hour blocks.
    • Volunteer respite — Faith in Action, hospice volunteers, AmeriCorps Senior Companion (free).

    First-time respite checklist

    1. Write down medication schedule + allergies.
    2. Emergency contacts list.
    3. Doctor names + phone numbers.
    4. Daily routine outline.
    5. Tour the facility (or interview helper) BEFORE you leave.
    6. Start small — 2-4 hours first time.
    7. Don't feel guilty. This is part of caring.

    Self-care isn't selfish

    "I'm fine, I don't need a break" — said by every burned-out caregiver. Respite once a week is preventive medicine for YOUR health. Use it. Your loved one needs you healthy more than constantly present.