Online Memorial Setup
Six ways to honor a life online. Free or near-free. Each helps friends and family share what they remember.
First, take care of yourself
There is no rush. Online memorials can wait days or months. Pick one that feels right — you do not need all of these. Done in good time, they help. Done in panic, they often get re-done later.
Memorialize a Facebook profile
Keeps the profile up under "Remembering [Name]". Friends can still post tributes. Profile no longer appears in friend suggestions or birthday reminders.
How to set up
- 1.Go to facebook.com/help/contact/234739086860192.
- 2.Submit the deceased's profile URL.
- 3.Upload proof of death (obituary link or death certificate).
- 4.Facebook usually completes in 7-10 days.
Alternative — full removal at facebook.com/help/contact/228813257197480 if the family prefers.
Visit / set upSet up a free tribute page on Legacy.com
Hosts the obituary, lets people light virtual candles and leave condolences. Auto-shared with the local newspaper if you publish through them.
How to set up
- 1.Go to legacy.com → "Memorial Sites" → "Create a free Memorial Website".
- 2.Add name, photos, dates, biography.
- 3.Invite family by email — they can add photos and stories.
- 4.Page stays online indefinitely at no cost.
Forever Missed (full memorial site)
More features than Legacy.com — timeline, story collections, downloadable memorial book.
How to set up
- 1.forevermissed.com → "Create a Memorial".
- 2.Add basic info, photos, music.
- 3.Invite family to contribute. Each member gets their own login.
- 4.Free version has small ads. $50/year removes them and unlocks more storage.
YouTube tribute channel
Upload home videos and family memorial slideshows. Family searches one channel name to find them all.
How to set up
- 1.Sign in to youtube.com with a Google account (a new one for the family is fine).
- 2.Click your profile icon → "Create a channel" → name it after your loved one.
- 3.Upload videos as "Unlisted" — family with the link can watch, strangers cannot find via search.
- 4.Add Photos slideshows by uploading a Google Photos slideshow as a video.
Unlisted is safer than Public — keeps it for family without making it findable.
Visit / set upGoFundMe Memorial
For funeral costs, medical bills, or charity in their name. One link to share with family who want to contribute.
How to set up
- 1.gofundme.com → "Start a GoFundMe" → Memorial.
- 2.Add story, photo, goal amount.
- 3.Verify identity (drivers license).
- 4.Share the link via text, email, social.
For funerals specifically, you may also try TapRoot Foundation or Modest Needs for need-based grants.
Visit / set upSpotify / Apple Music memorial playlist
Their favorite music, all in one place. Family can collaborate, or listen quietly.
How to set up
- 1.Spotify or Apple Music → "+" New Playlist.
- 2.Name it after your loved one.
- 3.Add their favorite songs.
- 4.On Spotify, make it collaborative — family can add their own picks.
- 5.Share the link via text or email.
A note about scammers and grief
Within days of an online obituary, families sometimes get scam calls and emails. Common ones: fake "your loved one had a debt with us" calls, fake life-insurance "verification", fake credit-collector "deceased account" inquiries. None of those are real until you have proven the caller. Real businesses write paper letters and accept callbacks.